Will I Find Someone Better Than My Ex?

Will I find someone better than my ex? Good question, and it does depend very heavily on your mindset and your available dating pool. So, my name is Stephen Frost, I'm the founder of Marriage Matching here in Osaka, Japan. We help people with finding the right partner, in part through dating services that we offer to ensure that people will get the mindset in the right place to actually attract in the right partner.

So, a lot of people do focus on their ex. A lot of people hold a lot of love and feelings for their ex, especially if the ex broke up with them, and even in some cases when they return to the thought of their ex after a period of time thinking that they made a mistake. There are a lot of important things to draw through from this, and some very important information, which I will be sharing within this video.

So, in terms of can you find someone better than your ex? Yes, absolutely you can, and there are a number of reasons for this. For one, if you have seen previous videos to do with “what is true love” or also to do with the one on Law of Attraction, you will have picked up certain things around attracting partners, what true love realistically is, and how that actually comes to people at certain times within their life. Now, one of the things that's very, very important in terms of exes and relationships, and a lot of people do focus in on things like “right person, wrong time.” The reality is, and this is from the perspective of having worked as a personal coach, professional coach for over 20 years, having run a marriage agency for many years as well.

There is never a right person, wrong time. It is only ever right person, right time. If it is right person wrong time, then it's generally a very close approximation to an ideal partner, and it was something that was just not really going to work out or not be ideal, and so it ended for some reason, and that generally was so that both people could move forward to finding the right person.

Now, sometimes there can be a lot of pain in and around exes, and certainly you want to be able to overcome breakup healthily, it's very important. It's something that very few people ever really do, a lot of people hang on to old emotions, old beliefs, old thoughts in and around relationships and exes, and it never does anyone any good.

You need to let go of that stuff and you need to let go of it properly. So, can you find someone better than your ex? Yes, you absolutely can. The reasoning for that is if your ex was the right person, it would have worked out. You would have stayed together. You would have been happy. The reality being that when a relationship doesn't work out, there were points of friction, points of lack of compatibility as well, and from those two things alone, it's very, very clear to note that if you've got friction, if you've got lack of compatibility, that person was never an ideal partner. It was never an ideal healthy relationship. There was stuff missing, and so from that perspective, if you really want true love in your life, moving on is a really good, healthy thing to do.

So, can you find someone better than your ex? Yes, absolutely, and there is caveat on this. You need to be able to let go of the past. You need to be able to let go of all of the thoughts, all of the emotions in and around your ex. Ideally, both the positive as well as the negative. The negative stuff definitely has to go, it is never going to do you any good. That said, focusing in on an ex or focusing in on someone that you have held a great deal of love for, and yet the relationship has never worked out. That's never going to do you any favors either. You need to be able to move forward in a clean slate. Whether you have been hanging around with someone because you believe that they're your true love and they've not really been giving you sufficient time or response to actually develop a solid relationship with them, or whether you have developed a relationship with them, and they've then walked away, or you've walked away for some reason, you both need to be able to move forward, to actually be able to be with your true love. So, how is this possible? For one, like I mentioned, getting rid of the negative emotions and negative beliefs, limiting beliefs, all of those kind of things. Once you've done that, you start setting in action a chain of events which can help you to achieve the right mix within your life so that your ideal partner can come through to you.

Now, this can be in terms of finding new opportunities within dating pools that you're already in. Or it could be in terms of getting into a new dating pool. In terms of cleaning up your mindset, getting rid of all of the thoughts of your ex, you then clear space so that someone who is capable of both being loved by you and loving you, can come into your life.

When your whole focus is in around your ex and how great they were, it's going to be very, very difficult for someone to actually come into your life. They're not going to be able to compete with a level of focus you've got on someone else. So, hence why cleaning out those kind of thoughts is very, very important.

Will I find someone better than my ex? Yes, you can. Provided you are committed to doing the work to actually allow it to happen, and that is a serious point, which is why I give pause there. You need to be committed to this. You need to be committed to actually acknowledging that true love is still to be found, and that certain things within your life need to change if you are to actually attract in that true love, and experience it properly within your life. So, will I find someone better than my ex? Yeah, absolutely, provided you put in the work. Provided you then take action to being sure that you are in the right dating pool, having actually cleaned up your mindset so that all the stuff to do with Law of Attraction can work in your favor, and provided that you have cleared up all the stuff to do with your ex to make sure that they are no longer part of your psychological picture.

Okay, so my name again, Stephen Frost, I am the founder of Marriage Matching here in Osaka, Japan. In terms of the question, “will I find someone better than my ex?” Yes, absolutely, provided you put the commitment in to actually getting on, moving on, letting go of them and actually attracting in the right person the right true love, then yes, you absolutely can. Thank you.

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