How To Find Someone Better Than Your Ex?

How to find someone better than your ex? So, most people have been through relationships. Most people have been through breakups. A lot of people get focused in on exes and wishing things had worked out, and struggling around them. So this video is here to cover how to find someone better than your ex, so that you can actually get true love in your life and really move on to achieving a happy, healthy relationship with your ideal partner.

My name is Stephen Frost, I am the founder of Marriage Matching here in Osaka, Japan. We do help with partner finding services, and we do also do dating coaching services to help people get their mindset in the right shape. Now, as a part of this, there are two distinct things which affect a person's ability to find their ideal partner and actually create a healthy relationship with them.

One is mindset. Time and time again, pretty much everything within life comes back to mindset. The second one being dating pool, particularly the right dating pool. So, those are the two things to focus on when you want to find someone better than your ex. For one, most people can work out whether they're in the right dating pool or not, whether they need to take some action to actually influence their dating pool, and to ensure that they’re meeting the right kind of people so that they can actually find someone who is going to be good for them, so that they can find true love.

That stuff is relatively easy. There are a lot of services out there, and lots of different apps, as well as different groups, so that you can actually start meeting people and potentially connect with someone who is true love and your ideal partner. The second point on this one, which basically is the first point in terms of dating and actually connecting with ideal partners, is that of mindset.

Now, this is where a lot of people start to phase out because they think their mindset is in a good shape, and “I don't really need to do anything about it” or it's just too difficult so “yeah, just don't worry about it, just focus on dating pool.” Mindset is crucial. Anytime anyone is approaching success or wishing to approach success, you need to be in the right mindset.

There are things in around this, commonly stuff that I've spoken about in other videos, which if you've watched any of the other stuff on this channel, you will have noted I do frequently come back to things like limiting beliefs, limiting decisions, negative emotion. Because those things really do impact on a person's ability to actually one be in a healthy relationship, and two, attract in their ideal partner and true love as a result.

So, how to find someone better than your ex? You need to get your mindset sorted. You need to get it clear. You need to clear out all of the stuff, let go of everything to do with your previous partner. This can also then involve getting rid of stuff which used to belong to your ex, or came from your ex.

You need to remove focus from them to the point where realistically they become unimportant to you, okay, and that starts creating space within your life so that you can actually attract in someone better than your ex and actually develop a healthy relationship with them, very, very important. In terms of the mental side of things, by cleaning out the limiting decisions, cleaning out the limiting beliefs, you then clear up issues to do with self-love, self-esteem, self-worth, which then underpin things to do with having a healthy relationship.

Once you have got your mindset in a good shape, good order, those kind of things start to just filter out into the outside world. Law of Attraction starts working more in your favor and you will start to notice more opportunities, regardless of which dating pool you are in, that will help you to connect with the right person. When people work with this stuff on a really, really deep level, when they really do take to heart and commit to clearing out limiting decisions and limiting beliefs, all of that stuff, actually getting the right dating pool becomes almost irrelevant because the right person tends to then just come to them.

Yes, there is action you can take which can speed that process along, which is getting in the right dating pool. But generally when you've got things right, people will just start to gravitate towards you, and then the relationship can start in a more organic way. So, how to find someone better than your ex? Clean up your mindset. Take action to get in the right dating pool, and then actually make sure you stay focused on that person that you are starting to date.

Will it be the first person that you meet? It might be, it might take a few more iterations. Never get discouraged on any of this stuff. When there is a knock back, just take it as another step on the path. Every “no” brings you closer to the “yes” that is the right person. The true love that you're actually seeking within your life.

So even if you just look at it from that perspective, statistically you cross off enough noes, you will find the one, and that can be a very empowering way to actually look at things. Your ex was realistically never the right one. If they were the one, things would have worked out. So, if anyone else in the future fails to work out, does that mean that you should have gone back to your ex?

Far from it. It just means that you're still on the path to actually finding the one. Are there times when it can be worth assessing what you're actually looking for in terms of a partner and people that you're dating? Yeah, absolutely. It can be worth looking at your expectations, what you realistically want, the action you're taking, and basically everything on a holistic level to ensure that you're doing the right things to then actually find, meet and be with that one true person.

So, how to find someone better than your ex? Realistically, again sort out your mindset. Take action around dating pool. Keep positive mindset in and around dating, okay, and when things don't work out, if you get the inkling that something's not in with someone new that you're dating, close it off. Find the right person. Keep focused on finding true love and you will eventually find it.

It will come to you, and it will come to you faster when you do things around getting in the right dating pool as well. So, my name again, Stephen Frost, founder of Marriage Matching here in Osaka, Japan. How do you find someone better than your ex? You clean up your mindset, you make sure you get in the right dating pool, and you keep a positive mindset around everything as you are going through the dating experience and basically that right person will then come to you and that's when everything can start to flourish, and you'll actually realize that, yeah, you were dating the wrong person previously, and you've now found the right dating, person to date and the right person to marry and enjoy life with. Thank you.

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