How Does Law Of Attraction Affect Dating?
How Does Law Of Attraction Affect Dating?
How Does Law Of Attraction Affect Dating? Good question, Law of attraction is one of those things that a lot of people start to investigate when they're looking to get certain results within their love life and from dating. Usually because they've been failing to meet the right person and they want to meet a very specific type of person, they're starting to hone in on what they really, really want in terms of their love life.
So, my name is Stephen Frost, I'm the founder of Marriage Matching here in Osaka, Japan. We help people with partner searching when they're looking for a very specific type of partner, and also help with dating coaching services as well to help them get their mindset right. Now, in terms of Law of Attraction, there are two distinct things which affect someone's ability to find the right partner.
The first one is being in the right dating pool for a start. The second one is mindset, and that's the one that tends to trigger off a lot of different challenges with a lot of different people, because they tend to be unaware of a lot of the pitfalls, a lot of the obstacles that exist within their own mindset to actually finding and being with that right person.
So, how does Law of Attraction affect dating? Well, Law of Attraction works with a part of the brain called the reticular activation system, it's located deep within the brain, and essentially what it governs is what you see, what you notice in the world around you. Prior to the reticular activation system being activated, as it were, people don't really tend to notice very much. When they actually start to develop a focus on something in their life the reticular activation system tends to notice things, pick up on these things, and it also tends to send out signals which bring in more of that thing, and thus why people notice it more within their life.
So again, how does Law of Attraction affect dating? What most people are unaware of is that the Law of Attraction is in action 24 hours a day, seven days a week whether they've got a conscious focus on what they're looking for or not. Very important that. What most people actually start doing when they're going into Law of Attraction work is starting to work with it on a conscious level. Now, why is this distinction between conscious and unconscious important? It is important for the fact that everything within the Law of Attraction works mostly on an unconscious level.
Yes, when you work with it consciously, you are sending signals through about what you want. Those all go through the unconscious mind, which is what governs all of the interactions and the transmission and the flow of information. So, how is this creating then impact? Well, on an unconscious level, that's where you've got things like values and beliefs, and certainly if you've looked at other videos which I've shared previously to help people, you will have noticed certain consistent themes in and around values levels and beliefs, especially limiting beliefs.
Now, for people that have limiting beliefs, it is going to affect how the Law of Attraction actually works, the type of people that you are actually attracting into your life. Certainly, when there are things to do with what people would classify as self-esteem issues, self-worth issues, self-love issues, those are going to downgrade the ability of someone to attract in a good, loving, healthy relationship.
So, regardless of whether you're working on something consciously with the Law of Attraction or whether it's just working there automatically in the background, it is going to be working off what you've got within beliefs systems and values systems, alongside everything else that you're looking at, notice, and think “yes, I would actually like that within a relationship.” So, that is very, very key when it comes to how the Law of Attraction affects dating.
The key point here being, if you want the Law of Attraction working in your favor, clearing up your mindset is a really, really wise thing to do. Getting rid of those limiting beliefs, limiting decisions. Now, when you actually want to start creating positive effects beyond the normal, yes, conscious effort is wise. Certainly, once you've actually cleaned up things to do with limiting beliefs, limiting decisions, which is what's going to create the majority of impact on what the Law of Attraction actually achieves for people.
When you start focusing in on what you realistically want within a relationship, what you want in terms of an ideal partner, then the reticular activation system in your unconscious mind will set about actually creating circumstances so that you notice opportunities that will help you to bring that into your life. So, that is very, very important. Consciously, what can you do about this?
Well, there are a number of different things. Obviously dating coaching really, really good way to fast track through results on that. Beyond that, if you're wanting to actually work on this on your own, and there are very good reasons for doing that. It tends to be a little cheaper in terms of investment, even if it may take substantially longer to actually achieve results.
That said, what can you do on your own to help influence the Law of Attraction in your favor? Sitting down with a journal, sitting down with a notebook, and actually going through working out what it is that you realistically want within a relationship. A lot of people have issues on this front because they say, “well, yeah, I just know what I want and that's cool, I've got it in my mind.” When you actually start exploring this stuff through properly, through pen and paper, actually just allowing things to flow through from your mind on pen onto paper, you start to notice a few things. There can be inconsistencies that come up. There can be things like, “oh, actually, no, now that I'm thinking about that, that's perhaps not the ideal result” and so through actually getting this stuff down on paper, through actually exploring it on a conscious level, you can actually find various pitfalls to do with what you're looking for in terms of relationship, and you can start doing things to actually correct that, which will help you to then work with the Law of Attraction more effectively and actually attract in the right kind of person.
So, that is very, very important. Working through with a notebook, actually just letting everything flow and starting to get greater clarity, and clean up any issues you've got around the type of relationship you want. So setting boundaries within it, looking at all of those kind of things. Setting characteristics for an ideal partner as well. Type of things that you want to be doing together, what you value in terms of family, finances, all of those things. Start getting more and more specific, and it will actually help you to hone in more on the ideal type that you've got, and thus your ability to attract that person into your life. Can you go beyond this? Yes, absolutely you can. Working with meditation and the Law of Attraction has been shown time and time again through various different studies to be a very, very powerful thing.
So, how can you actually do this? Well, there are a number of different ways. Certainly if you've got any practice with mindfulness meditation, that can be very, very useful because you can start to detach emotions and clear off anything that is going to create issue, because negative emotion is going to cause challenges with all this kind of thing.
That said, when you can move beyond emotion, when you can move within a visualization, okay, so stripping out all the negativity and concerns about things, so that you can project through a truly positive set of imagery around the person that you actually want and the relationship that you actually want within your life. You are going to put yourself in a very, very powerful position to actually start attracting in that relationship.
So, how do you do that? Well, again, this comes back to what was mentioned before with getting things down on paper, really exploring through what you're looking for in terms of an ideal relationship and an ideal partner. The more you can actually flesh that out when it comes to then doing a visualization meditation, the more you can actually create detail within that visualization that will help you to start bringing about the reality.
Does visualization meditation work? For most people, yes, and again, a defining factor in on this one is negative emotion limiting beliefs, get rid of those things, meditations in and around visualizations and Law of Attraction become a lot more effective. When you have got limiting beliefs, holding you back, when you've got a lot of negative emotion going on, it is going to diminish the effects, if not, nullify them completely.
Has been seen at time and time again. There is a very, very famous set of experimentation around this, the first one being to do with a university team that was playing basketball. A third of the team went off and all they did was practice physically shooting hoops for one hour. Another one went off and, another third that is, went off and they just visualized shooting hoops for the same period of time.
The final third was just allowed to relax for the same period of time. When they actually brought them all back, what they found was that by a reasonable margin, the group which had just been visualizing shooting perfect hoops actually achieved the best results, and there are various different things in around this, because most of it is down to theory still at the moment as to why it works so effectively, it's very difficult to prove.
But what actually occurs within the mind is that through consistently seeing this thing happening, the mind develops a connection to it actually being reality, and thus it creates it more easily, and the circumstances come about for actually becoming a lifetime result, a real result in reality. So when you can actually work through with a notebook, when you can clear through negative emotions, limiting beliefs actually get down a really, really solid typing in terms of what you're looking for, in terms of your ideal partner and also your ideal relationship.
So really getting specific with it. Then you take it within a meditation, and start visualizing both that person and all of the circumstances, everything else that actually shows that you've achieved the result of your ideal relationship. So you want to be future pacing this as well. Then you can start leveraging the Law of Attraction to effect dating in a very, very positive way.
So, how does Law of Attraction affect dating? Well, it affects it whether you like it or not. Whether you're working with it consciously or whether you're saying, yeah, doesn't really work or don't believe in it, it is going to be there in the background, working full stop because it is just part of your mindset. Your mindset works on what you're focused on and what you're focused on, that which it deems important to you, whether it's a point of limitation, point of negativity, point of positivity, or whatever, the things that it deems that you hold with greatest import, it will focus on those and bring more of that within your life.
Hence why when you can clear out all of the stuff that is going to cause unpleasantness within your life, it is a lot easier to attract in and create the stuff which is going to be pleasant, enjoyable, and leads to a rewarding life. So, my name again, Stephen Frost, founder of Marriage Matching here in Osaka, Japan. If you are looking for help with this kind of thing, then certainly get in contact, we do do dating coaching as I mentioned. If you're just looking to get in the right dating pool to attract the right partner in and find them more easily, certainly get in contact, we can help with that as well. For most people, actually just getting the right mindset in line is generally enough to ensure that they've got the Law of Attraction working effectively on their behalf.
So again, how does Law of Attraction affect dating? Law of attraction affects dating to the extent to which realistically you influence it. It is going to have effect on it from an unconscious level, bringing in all different kinds of results when you can actually work on it on a conscious level, clearing out all the stuff that's holding you back, Law of Attraction can have a very, very positive effect on relationships, upon dating, and actually help you to find the love of your life, your true love, in a more timely manner, and then create a happy, healthy, loving relationship which can last a lifetime. Thank you.
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